I used to feel like life was a puzzle that I could not put together. Some changes knocked me off balance. I was overwhelmed by the amount of stuff surrounding me.
As I progressed in life, I learned a couple of skills that helped me immensely improve my life.
So if you feel the same, you are not alone, and I have good news. I have three skills; if you learn them, they will transform your life.
Learn these skills and win in life.
My number one skill would be analytical. The power of critical thinking is unbelievable.
An analytical skill is the ability to deconstruct information into smaller categories in order to draw conclusions.
This skill consists of logical reasoning, critical thinking, communication, problem solving, and creativity.
It helps you to solve complex problems.
Critical thinking helps you think clearly and rationally, understanding the logical connection between ideas. It is the ability to engage in reflective and independent thinking.
Problem solving identifies an issue, collects research, and finds a solution.
With analytical skills, you can:
- Understand the links between ideas.
- Determine the importance and relevance of arguments.
- Identify inconsistencies and errors in arguments.
- Approach problems in a consistent and systematic way.
- Reflect and solve problems in real-time.
- Communicate results
“Education is not the learning of facts but the training of the mind to think.” – Albert Einstein
We are not able to think critically all the time.
Sometimes we are affected by anger, grief, or joy. But if you learn this skill, you will be able to step aside and look at problems with different eyes.
This ability helped me climb corporate ladders really quickly.
Because every time they assigned me to some project, I was able to look behind the old systems, bring new ideas, solve problems quickly, and find solutions that others never thought about.
If you want to start a business or side hustle, you stand in front of many obstacles.
Analytical skills help you solve them one by one. It helps you to overcome them because you approach the problem logically and with critical thinking, looking for solutions.
It helps you break complex issues into smaller, manageable components, gather relevant information, and identify patterns.
In today's world, it is critical to look beyond the surface and understand the underlying causes and effects.
The second skill is adaptability.
I can’t even count how many times I heard people say, „I always did it like this."
With every slight change, they were furious, anxious, and confused. They hated when processes changed, when applications got upgraded, etc. It was really hard to teach people to work with new applications or software and show them how they could benefit from them.
They just wanted to do it like they used to.
I have never had a problem with adaptability.
I like changes and learning new things. It’s hard.
I know it is.
But most of the changes lead to better things.
Your work is easier and more efficient, and you have more time for other things that are more important.
If you want to stay relevant and good at what you do, you need to learn and adapt to new technology and systems.
If you stay in your comfort zone and use the phrase „I always did it like that," you get yourself into vicious monotony. You can lose your credit on the job market. You will fall behind. It will be much worse to get back on the horse.
How to develop adaptability:
- Step outside your comfort zone: embrace new experiences and challenges.
- Develop a growth mindset: believe in your ability to learn and grow.
- Build resilience: learn to bounce back from setbacks and view challenges as opportunities.
The final one is something I started with. It is not a skill, but rather a philosophy.
And it's minimalism.
When I felt lost, I looked for what makes me happy in life. I assumed that new clothes, a phone, an iPad, and skin care would be beneficial to me.
So I went shopping. When I liked it, I bought it.
I don’t think I have to say that, but this leads to addiction.
Every time you feel sad or anxious, when you feel you don’t have a life in your hands, you go shopping. It makes you feel good. It becomes an addiction.
Not only does the feeling last a couple of days, but it also has a negative impact on your finances and your home.
You clutter your space with so many things that you have an urge to clean all the time. And at the end, you are never really satisfied.
The next day, something bad happens, and you go to buy some unimportant sh*t (sorry for that).
Think about this quote:
“We spend money that we do not have on things we do not need to impress people who do not care.” Will Smith
And yes, I've been there!
So I’ve been wondering why I’m feeling this way, what I can change, and what I'm doing wrong.
I came across The Minimalists - Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus.
At first, I was like, „I don’t want to be a weirdo with two black t-shirts in an empty apartment.“
But after watching some videos and podcasts, I realized it has a deeper meaning:
- After decluttering, you feel more light.
- You start to think differently.
- You save money.
- Quality over quantity
- You find out what you really love.
- Clean space, clear mind
- I’m more focused on other things.
- Cleaning my space is so much easier.
- Less stuff, more experience, and more fun
- You can live happily without the latest trends.
You don’t have to go to extremes. It’s good to declutter because it leads to thinking about your life and your needs. It pushes you to think about what you enjoy and what you do not. It helps you know yourself better.
I declutter regularly. Sometimes I buy things just because I like them. But most of the time, before I buy something, I stop and ask: Do I need it? Is the quality worth the money? Is it me, or is it societal pressure?
If one of the answers is no, I don’t buy it.
And I put the money into my savings account.
How to develop minimalism:
- Identify your values: determine what truly matters to you and prioritize accordingly.
- Declutter your physical space: start small and gradually eliminate unnecessary items.
- Practice digital minimalism: reduce screen time and focus on meaningful online interactions.
- Cultivate mindfulness: pay attention to the present moment and appreciate what you have.
These skills have equipped me with the tools to overcome obstacles, embrace change, and live a more fulfilling life. I believe that by incorporating these skills into your own life, you can unlock your full potential and achieve your goals.
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Talk to you soon.
~ Karolina
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